Bomer has gone to awards shows with his husband but has been pretty mum in terms of outright stating it. Yup, the glass closet paradox. Most people know, you're not exactly hiding it, but you've never outright said it. It would be great for Pace and Bomer to follow Quinto's example and maybe touch some lives. And I'm sure it would be great for Bomer's kids if he acknowledged their co-parent.
"You travel alone because other people are only there to remind you how much that hook hurts that we all bit down on. Wait for that one day we can bite free and get back out there in space where we belong, sail back over water, over skies, into space, the hook finally out of our mouths and we wander back out there in space spawning to other planets never to return hurrah to earth and we'll look back and can't even see these lives here anymore. Only the taste of blood to remind us we ever existed. The earth is small. We're gone. We're dead. We're safe."
-John Guare, Landscape of the Body