I'm going to get back to the actual topic of this thread
"There is no way he is effeminate--the guy from 'Are you being served'-now THAT is effeminate. Mr Mentius is young[cute as a button], slightly theatrical, joyously in love with another man and can actually put 2 words together"
So, SweetLips, you are saying to be effeminate you have to be old [not cute as a button], majorly theatrical, not in love with another man, and stupid....
I just can't with you, dude.
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