Don't have much tos hare about the show itself, but I wanted to share a wild experience I had today. At the matinee of Cabaret today I was seated between an older man on my left and a younger man on my right. During the first act the older man to my left, who appeared to be with his family, took out his phone and started scrolling. Don’t get me wrong, I HATE when people are on their phones, but generally I don’t want to cause a scene so I didn’t say anything. The man to my right, however, leaned over to me and loudly “whispered” “I guess something more interesting is happening on his phone.” The older gentleman heard and put the phone away.
For a few minutes at least. A few minutes later he took it out again, and again the man on my right loudly whispered to me “Someone needs to tell him he’s at a BROADWAY SHOW.” The man on his phone said sorry and put the phone away, but the man on the right said he needed to turn it off. The phone guy said okay but did not turn it off, prompting the other guy to continue to ask him to turn it off, which he didn’t do (he said “calm down.”)
At intermission the man on my right got up and the older man apologized for being on his phone - He said his daughter was in the hospital and he was checking to see if she had messaged him. I was like… okay. Whatever. The younger guy comes back and the older man tries to explain his excuse, and the younger guy immediately gets combative. He was saying there’s no excuse, etc, and the guy on the left was getting pretty pissed.
At this point, honestly, I was lowkey siding with the younger guy. I understand he had circumstances where he wanted to check his phone, but tbh I think if you are in a situation where you cannot be away from your phone you simply should not see a show. That’s my opinion.
But then things got REALLY ugly.The younger guy started mocking the older one’s excuse, saying “Oh, you’re daughter’s in the hospital? And you’re not there? You’re a piece of ****.” To which I audibly said “Oh my god.” They proceeded to start screaming at each other, both telling each other to **** off, spitting IN MY FACE because I was right between them. Younger guy said after the show he’d take him outside and “teach him some respect in front of his lady.” Ushers came over at this point and told him to calm down, and he said he would if that guy stayed off his phone. It was honestly crazy.
The tension between them was crazy, and it stressed me out for all of Act 2. I was nervous the guy would take his phone out again and they’d start yelling or something.
On one hand, I think people need to be called out. On the other hand, the whisper screaming match was definitely more distracting to me and everyone around me than the phone.
Also figured I’d put it in here in case anyone was there and was wondering WTF was going on lol.