i disagree somewhat. Def you've nailed it wrt the Orange Monster, but there are many people in the administration whose transphobia (for example) is as sincere as it is ignorant.
I also disagree to an extent, because dismissing people pointing out hypocrisy as "gotcha ****" comes from the same place as the mainstream media whose response to Republicans doing everything they've claimed to condemn Democrats over tends to be to wave it off as "Trump being Trump". For one, immoral behavior should always be identified as immoral behavior. For another, the audience for those condemnations isn't the Republicans themselves, but the swing/soft R voters who would be embarrassed by it or feel they were "fooled" by them into voting that way.
American voters are stupid, but they're also fickle, so giving them a reason to turn on Republicans is always a good idea. Throwing up your hands at their hypocrisy and saying "well, what're ya gonna do?" Is not that.