I don't think that fair, either. She's just a mean, bitter person that sees no reason to say whatever she wants . Once she has deemed you lesser than she is, you're fair game.
Will she become better person? We can hope, bu tchange is hard for most of us.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.