A stanading ovation is NOT a courtesy. It is suppose to be a sign of excellence.
I never stand for an ovation unless I think it's deserved. If someone is going to judge me for that, so be it. I'd rather be judged a bore, than a hypocrite. And to set the record staight, I don't think for one second that anyone gives a hoot if I stand or not. If only 7 or 8 people are sitting....the cast can't even SEE them if everyone else is standing.
YES, American b'way audiences stand MUCH too easily and I agree it's about proving to themselves that they have well-spent their money. But it doesn't happen at every show. I can easily remember shows that did not: BBAJ, (later in the run of) HAIR, The Story of My Life spring to mind.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.