Bettyboy72 said: "I’m Catholic and I found the show deeply affecting. I still think about it. A friend who is an actor told me before I saw the show, “Don’t worry about who is who and how they are related. Don’t worry about tracking characters. Listen to the dialogue and tap into the emotion.” I was grateful for that advice.
To me there was a lot of parallel process going on as an audience member. As someone else stated, Stoppard seemed to be doing a type of shell game with the characters. They are all human and therefore none of them deserved the inhumanity they faced. There was no need to even think about what religion someone was. All of the characters were complex, full bodied, loving and flawed. Yes many were painted in broad strokes but they were all shown as interconnected in ways that would create trauma for those that lived to tell the history. We were given vignettes of how things evolved for them and shown their humanity, humor, fear, anger and beauty in each vignette.
Also I was deeply moved by the relevance today. Eerily relevant. As a gay man living in a country going after drag shows, it would be easy for me practice some detachment as both a defense mechanism, a survival technique. That first Christmas with the family there is a sense of waiting for this ugliness to pass. Well it never passed. It tore a tragic and traumatic hole in the fabric of their family. It was chilling and affecting. Watching that holiday with foreboding, wanting a different outcome but knowing the inevitable. Thinking about what I can do to help ensure that an atrocity like this does not occur again. The show felt very immersive to me.
Those lost in death camps and those who survived are at risk of being forgotten if we do not keep their names and their stories alive. I think some of the letting go of following specific characters in this play allows audience members to project onto those characters. Maybe people they remember from their past or present based on the personalities or archetypes of the characters. To see how things evolve for them is truly devastating. It could happen to any of us if we do not remember this history, speak of it, share it. It also reminds us off the importance of speaking out against hatred and bigotry."
Beautifully and eloquently stated! I, too, fear this march towards an ignorant, more hate-based country, and find the resonance of this play quite timely. And for those wondering, you don't have to be Jewish, or gay, or part of any oppressed minority to be moved and affected by this play -- you just have to be human.