Eric, I saw the '95 revival (in fact I'm in the audience that was taped for the archives at the Library at Lincoln Center).
There were very mixed feelings. Yes, everyone was excited that it was the first major revival. But everyone also knew it was Roundabout doing it. Roundabout has this habit of bringing in talented actors and yet putting on crap shows. Also, excitement was running very high because the original cast had just done a concert version at Lincoln Center two years before to great success.
It was decided that the couples in the show would all be alike in social standing which I found a boring choice. (I loved the London revival that put them into different social classes).
Boyd Gaines, who looked good on paper, had vocal problems and missed performances, and you know how NY is when a star misses performances. His Bobby was a bit wooden, I think he was poorly directed and the keys to his songs were lowered losing the thrill in Being Alive.
I was anxious to see Debra Monk who I've always thought was a wonderful actress. But as Joanne, she didn't hit the right characterization. There was none of the Stritch stridency and Monk just came across as a pissed off Upper East Side woman. There was no bite to "Ladies Who Lunch."
Charlotte d'Amboise was a bit disappointing in Tick Tock. I sort of expected that since she's from a dance family background that it would be a bit more amazing. (I love those clips of McKechnie.)
I understand the LaChanze grinning comment because I remember during "You Could Drive A Person Crazy" all you could see were teeth. I had seen LaChanze in "Once On This Island" and I didn't remember the teeth so I'm wondering if the director told her to keep smiling.
The highlight of the show was Veanne Cox as Amy. Her "Not Getting Married" was a wonderful journey through madcap as only Veanne can deliver it. She was the standout in the show.
I also saw the revival in London with Adrian Lester as Bobby. I loved this production (except for the fact that they cut Tick Tock). It was interesting because the couples were of different social backgrounds and made for a more interesting interaction. Also, the thought that went into the characterizations was wonderful. There were small details in their performances that made them real people rather than characters in a musical. I felt that the London cast approached this as a serious work rather than the way Americans approach musicals which seems to be giving surface characterizations.
If anyone ever tells you that you put too much Parmesan cheese on your pasta, stop talking to them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.