joevitus said: "Maybe lack of empathy forme.
I myself have tons of empathy to anyone abused or attacked, and if he took pics without permission or assaulted anyone, I'd say ban him for life. Heck, put him in jail.But as there is zero evidence he did either thing, I have to say "He's a jerk, life goes on." That's called being an adult.
If he never gets work in the theater, and no girl will ever date him again, let alone share a pic of herself, unless he apologizes, I think that's fine. Or am I not showing empathy again?"
I am very much someone who rolls his eyes at some of the Woke nonsense i read online, and I actually *do* think our society has gone wayyyy too far with the notion that we "believe women" as a substitute for "we take women seriously and investigate their allegations as the law requires."
And i say this because despite my not-woke-enough perspective (I thought Aziz Ansari got an insanely raw deal, should have sued- and was called a "rape apologist" on Facebook), what you are saying here is truly revolting. You keep bobbing and weaving away from whatever points are made, to double down on simply repugnant viewpoints. The notion that you only have empathy for someone who is "abused or attacked" is your way of saying "this girl took those pictures willingly, so who is she to complain?" Lets get that out there: you think she got what she deserved for taking the pictures in the first place (even though its pretty clear she had no idea, but thats a pesky fact you continue to ignore).
Whether or not she consented to being filmed nude, its patently sickening to then trade those images (TRADE, you understand, means the parties EXCHANGED PICTURES)-- not of random strangers on the internet, not of random "conquests" from Tinder or wherever, but of your CO WORKERS whom you are meant to respect as human beings. To engage in this (and the language they used to describe it) it disgusting. It shows the kind of person someone is. Thats not a reason to be put in jail, and it SURE is a reason that maybe high profile, high paying, plum Broadway roles alongside dozens of young women is not for you.
You sound an awful lot like those who defended Brett Kavanaugh-they couldn't with a straight face insist that his accuser was lying, and they couldn't get around the fact that his "alibi" plainly implicated him- so they went on and on about the statute of limitations, a sure legal defense that would unquestionably prevent Kavanaugh from ever being convicted-- TOTALLY irrelevant to the objection, which was that he is unfit to sit on the Court, even if he isnt currently liable to be put in jail. In other words, you sound like a Trump supporter. That, or you sound like Ramasar himself. Either way, you've disqualified yourself.