To quote author Sue Grafton -- "Our recollection of the past is not simply distorted by our faulty perception of events remembered, but skewed by those forgotten. The memory is like orbiting twin stars, one visible, one dark, the trajectory of what's evident forever affected by the gravity of what's concealed."
If anybody can stand *one more article* about this… the media writer in The Guardian weighs in.
It is a story of interlocking media deals and cultivated media cronies. Everybody is at work here. Everybody is someone else's instrument. Everybody is promoting something. Two decades have passed but the Allen-Farrow betrayal, break-up, and molestation charges are somehow, all of a sudden, as vivid as yesterday.
Here's a certainty: When you play out your personal dramas, hurt and self-interest in the media, it's a confection. You say what you have to say in the way you have to say it to give it media currency – and that's always far from the truth. Often, in fact, someone else says it for you. It's all planned. It's all rehearsed. This is craft. This is strategy. This is manipulation. This is spin.
I don't even watch msnbc anymore, but I really hope Rachel Maddow stays far away from this.
Moses is the one I'm curious about. Dylan says he "divorced himself from the family a long time ago." Why? It's fascinating that she says his disbelieving her (at least I assume that's what she means) is "the lowest form of evil that I could ever imagine." You might think she'd give a father abusing his child that status.
Obviously, the molestation of Dylan could have taken place without his knowledge; he's hardly a reliable witness. But what about the physical abuse from Mia, which Soon Yi also says happened but which Dylan vehemently denies? It's like they were all living in completely different families.
Though Dylan is the only one Mia supports for telling "her truth."
Do we suppose that the antipathy for Woody Allen means all of these people STOPPED SEEING THERAPISTS?
Because, I can't think of a single therapist who would say, "You know what would be even more healing for you right now? Give an exclusive to People magazine."
Moses and the two nannies and the other children were there at the house in Connecticut that day. Moses and the two nannies say that Woody and Dylan were not alone. But Mia and her defenders say that the nannies were in Woody's employ so they can't be believed. Now they say the same thing about Moses.
I guess we're supposed to infer that because of her brother, Mia possibly came from a family so sexually dysfunctional/deviant that her brain might have been so addled as to invent allegations like these and think nothing of it?
Cryptic comments like that aren't particulary helpful.
Beyoncé is not an ally. Actions speak louder than words, Mrs. Carter. #Dubai #$$$
Dylan, who has just begun second grade, tests in the upper-90th percentile. Contrary to recent reports in the press, she has, according to family members, never been in therapy for an inability to distinguish fantasy from reality. She has been in therapy for separation anxiety (she didn’t want to be left by her parents at nursery school) and for her shyness. Indeed, people wondered how she could cope with so much doting attention from her father—behavior that many people frankly didn’t know what to make of. “When she just wanted to giggle and run away and play, he’d be right behind her. And I just looked at it, and I’d shake my head and think, I hope this is a great thing,” says Pascal. “It was to the point that when we would go over there I wouldn’t run over and talk to her or anything. I’d talk to Satchel, but it’s like you don’t even dare talk to Dylan when he’s around.” And was Pascal aware of the rule that Woody was never to be left alone with Dylan?
“It was a really good rule,” she says. “There was no other way she could get away and get out.”
Several times last summer, while Woody was visiting in Connecticut, Dylan locked herself in the bathroom, refusing to come out for hours. Once, one of the baby-sitters had to use a coat hanger to pick the lock. Dylan often complained of stomachaches and headaches when Woody visited: she would have to lie down. When he left, the symptoms would disappear. At times Dylan became so withdrawn when her father was around that she would not speak normally, but would pretend to be an animal.
So both sides vehemently deny and contradict the other. Which makes weighing in... well, an exercise in futility. There's no viable support for either side except for whatever one chooses to acknowledge or ignore.
"...everyone finally shut up, and the audience could enjoy the beginning of the Anatevka Pogram in peace."
"So both sides vehemently deny and contradict the other. Which makes weighing in... well, an exercise in futility. There's no viable support for either side except for whatever one chooses to acknowledge or ignore."