Looks, brains, wallet or heart?
Discuss.
Broadway Legend Joined: 12/28/03
It's definitely brains. While looks get me hooked on a guy, if I were to get married or be in a long-term relationship- it couldn't be anyone who is intellectually stupid. I'd go mad.
It was a tough one between brains and wallet, though.
Updated On: 8/22/04 at 12:42 AM
I have a feeling we're gonna get some complete B.S. answers here.
But I go with none of the above. Humor is the most important thing to me. Combine that with a good heart and I'm all yours!
Spoken like a true politician.
Let's be honest. In many cases looks are most important for INITIAL attraction, but brains or heart can make a person attractive that you might not originally have considered "hot."
I think its a tie between brains and heart. I need someone that challenges me and is caring.
politician?!?! LOL. You know gays can't be in politics!
I need a big heart. It's a must. A goodhearted companion almost sets everything in stone. I'd say that looks are big when it comes to initial impression, but everything builds up from there, so that's why it's towards the bottom of my list.
1. Heart
2. Humor
3. Brains
4. Looks
5. Wallet
I added humor because it's a must.
Heart - I'm a romantic, and demand flowers.
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/14/03
Heart is most important to me. I need to have a sensitive and caring man... He needs to be romantic and sensual and all those wonderful things, but still be tough and rugged...
Of course, the other things on the list are important to me as well....
What can I say? I want it all
If in Heaven you don't excel, you can always party down in hell...
Brains is my first thing, but I think that's because I'm generally attracted to men who I feel are more intelligent then I am.
sense of humor. If a girl can't see the humor in life, we would not get along for very long
wallet too. I always like a stylish wallet.
The other two options are kind of silly. Everybody knows that w ith a big wallet you can BUY the looks!
Wallet. At the age I've reached, I realize that you can have friends for humor, brains and heart. You don't need your partner to have those things. But it is important to be able to have an enjoyable life without worrying about money if at all possible.
Broadway Legend Joined: 12/31/69
Broadway Legend Joined: 10/4/03
hm....it's a toss up between brains and heart.
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/10/04
See I find nerdy boys attractive so "looks" really aren't of much importance in reality since no one else thinks they're cute lol
Humor and brains. and a lot of caring!!
I look for their political views too since that's something really important to me. I don't go for Republicans :)
Swing Joined: 6/4/03
for a relationship? heart, humor and brain
for a good time? looks and wallet!!!!!!
Hmmmmm, I would agree with glitzguy3, in the long run I would say loyalty is most important.
Humor-
The guy needs to be straight-
A mind like Musto (His humor- the man just kills me)
A brain like Musto
A heart like Tom Hanks(Jeff Marx also has a giant heart)
Looks means nothing to me. Humor and heart is what I seek.
But if he is hairy he must shave. I have a phobia, I can't stand back hair.
Updated On: 8/22/04 at 10:55 PM
Then looks obviously mean SOMETHING to you.
I would take a hairy man with humor and shave him!
I have done it before!
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
1. Heart
2. A great smile
3. Has to make me laugh
4. Has to make me feel appreciated
5. Brains
6. looks
7. Wallet
Does there have to be money in the wallet?
I have a metro card. Is that good for anything? A Starbucks gift certificate?
Loyalty and Honesty are most important to me. After that, Humor and Heart.
Then, **** size. (Just kidding)
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