#101
Posted: 3/31/08 at 12:46am
TOTCSF1, I'm glad we're able to talk about this calmly. And I do respect your commitment to the show and the actor.
Barbour's lawyer went out of his way to attack a girl who was, I remind, 15, at the time. There's been absolutely no evidence that she was after his money. And neither the lawyer nor Barbour were able to produce any evidence to the contrary. She didn't ask for money before filing the case (ie, "if you don't pay me, I'll have you arrested", et al). And a criminal action does not result in any monetary payment for the victim. If anything, she probably lost money by hiring a lawyer to protect herself from attacks during the trial.
And even if she did have a motive--which she doesn't--it still doesn't excuse his actions. It doesn't matter why she chose to come forward. What he did matters.
The producers were standing by Barbour, yes, but that was before the trial came to an end. Innocent until proven guilty, and perhaps they were hoping that Barbour would be acquitted or the charges would be dropped. Supporting someone who is under suspicion of something is very different than supporting someone who has been convicted, admitted the accusation was true, and done time for it.
I'm sure Barbour has friends and family who care about him. So do the girls in this case. He was old enough and intelligent enough to know that what he was doing was wrong, and by accounts, there was more than one incident and possibly more than one victim. Mistakes don't happen again and again.
Normally I think that a performer's personal life should be separated from the professional...but when one commits this type of offense, the lines blur. Sexual abuse offenses are in my mind a deal breaker, and there's never any excuse or justification for them. None. Ever. Do I want to buy a ticket to a show knowing I'm paying his salary? No.
Just because one has talent, it does not mean they are a moral or decent person. Nor does it mean that their talent should override any of their offenses, when they are of this magnitude. In a way it just makes the situation even more unfortunate--Barbour had everything going for him, he had a substantial amount of talent and a terrific stage presence, and he chose to throw it all away with this sort of behavior. It's a shame he made the choices he did.
Barbour's lawyer went out of his way to attack a girl who was, I remind, 15, at the time. There's been absolutely no evidence that she was after his money. And neither the lawyer nor Barbour were able to produce any evidence to the contrary. She didn't ask for money before filing the case (ie, "if you don't pay me, I'll have you arrested", et al). And a criminal action does not result in any monetary payment for the victim. If anything, she probably lost money by hiring a lawyer to protect herself from attacks during the trial.
And even if she did have a motive--which she doesn't--it still doesn't excuse his actions. It doesn't matter why she chose to come forward. What he did matters.
The producers were standing by Barbour, yes, but that was before the trial came to an end. Innocent until proven guilty, and perhaps they were hoping that Barbour would be acquitted or the charges would be dropped. Supporting someone who is under suspicion of something is very different than supporting someone who has been convicted, admitted the accusation was true, and done time for it.
I'm sure Barbour has friends and family who care about him. So do the girls in this case. He was old enough and intelligent enough to know that what he was doing was wrong, and by accounts, there was more than one incident and possibly more than one victim. Mistakes don't happen again and again.
Normally I think that a performer's personal life should be separated from the professional...but when one commits this type of offense, the lines blur. Sexual abuse offenses are in my mind a deal breaker, and there's never any excuse or justification for them. None. Ever. Do I want to buy a ticket to a show knowing I'm paying his salary? No.
Just because one has talent, it does not mean they are a moral or decent person. Nor does it mean that their talent should override any of their offenses, when they are of this magnitude. In a way it just makes the situation even more unfortunate--Barbour had everything going for him, he had a substantial amount of talent and a terrific stage presence, and he chose to throw it all away with this sort of behavior. It's a shame he made the choices he did.
Updated On: 3/31/08 at 12:46 AM