Again, you have to look at the definition of racism.
Some choices, some behaviors, and a lot of actions and words will most certainly fall under that definition.
This country, and this world, has a long way to go when it comes to race relations, and the problem that still confronts us with racism. There is no denying that.
But seeing racism in everything is not helpful either. The word is getting thrown around a lot, even in circumstances where it's not warranted. And that only hurts those who truly are victims of it.
We really saw this kick into overdrive during the last presidency. If you didn't agree politically with the former president you were automatically deemed a racist by some.
I had a friend who was actually a big Ben Carson fan. He was questioned as to whether his lack of support for BO had to do with his skin color. He said no. He didn't agree with his policies. When he said he was a Ben Carson supporter, he was confronted with, 'What, are you just trying to justify that there isn't a little racism there somewhere?' My friend responded with, 'No. You inferred I was a racist so I'm just giving you the truth. Is your support of BO some attempt at justifying you're not a racist?' His colleague had no response to that. And herein lies another problem. People who make accusations, get a response, and then call it defensive. No, you were the one who made the serious accusation, now here's the truth. If you can't deal with the truth, and are now going to play it up as defensive, that's your issue.
I have a very conservative black coworker who has a real problem with this. He says he'd like to say he appreciates white citizens who are standing up for the black community, but as he said, some don't know when to stop. And when they make it an issue where it's not an issue, it just makes it more difficult for him. And it becomes almost patronizing. Suffice it to say he has no problem calling out people who make offensive remarks. When they happen. But he doesn't spend his life looking for every minuscule utterance either. He knows it when he sees it.
Like he said, racism exists. And it needs to be addressed when it happens. But to overplay that card only hurts those who truly are victims of it, because an overplayed hand eventually gets ignored. A la the boy who cried wolf.