Theater3232 said: "Due to severe weekend subway delays (far worse than normal) I arrived at 7 minutes past the hour for Cats. Box office refused to past-date and the ushers & house manager both insisted that everyone watch the first 20 minutes via a video monitor in the hallway, whose volume was turned down so low that you could hardly hear. "
Past dating is a courtesy by the theater, and must be approved by the house manager. It's not done lightly either. Being a couple minutes late is not going to convince the house manager to past date the ticket, even if the next week of shows only have 5 seats sold per performance.
Also, I'm surprised no one brought up the more logistical reason as to why you had to watch on a monitor: the cast is occasionally up and down the aisles in the first 20 minutes. Seating people during this time is not only disruptive, it can also be hazardous.
The monitor volume is low so that it cannot be heard inside the house. You weren't in a cone of silence, you should have still been able to hear most of the show from where you were standing.
Needless to say, I didn't buy any drinks or merchandise due to the terrible treatment I received. And I've been bad-mouthing this show to everyone I speak to (whereas, had I been treated nicely, I wouldn't have brought this up.)
Simply not allowing you to go to your seat when it posed a danger to you and the performers does not mean you were treated badly. As was pointed out, the house staff only enforce late seating policies, the policies themselves are established by the producers of the show. They had no authority to seat you any earlier.
"And it was a free-for-all in the theater. People were taking pictures, talking throughout the show, videotaping the performance, and nothing was done. So this ruined my enjoyment too. I wrote a note to the theater, and again, nothing was done. Nice way to treat a paying customer."
Nothing was done? Were they supposed to go back in time and solve the problem? One thing that a lot of people don't seem to understand is that producers are more frequently requesting that ushers and other house staff not address issues with patrons involving phones or cameras. You are automatically blaming and punishing theater staff over things out of their control.