I attended AADA, here in New York (about 100 years ago). Anyway, I will say that over 25% of their "alumni" they brag about were probably NOT invited back for the 2nd year program.
At the time I attended they had approx. 750 or so students auditioned and accepted (out of about 5,000 who auditioned). I got in that one, too!!! Then, the 2nd year, they narrow us down to only 50! Yes, from 750 or so to ONLY 50. The third year about 10. It may have changed since then . . .but, many of their 'stars' on their adverts and walls were only one-year students who did well.
Stories I heard then . . . and throughout my years in the business.
Lucille Ball was kicked out of AADA (I think) and a letter was written to her mother, telling them to teach her to cook and clean as she has NO TALENT as an actor!
Ruth Gordan was NOT invited back the 2nd year. She told us herself (yes, I was there a long time ago). Ruth was told, to her face, to learn to cook and clean as she'd only amount to being a housewife.
Bette Midler could not get an agent in NY when she was starring in "Fiddler ON The Roof" on Broadway (as Hodel)! One agent told her she was too ugly to make it in show business and had a nice voice, but not enough to make it.
Brooke Shields (who has been on Broadway) auditioned for one of the drama schools (was it Yale) and was turned down; she ended up studying literature/journalism or the like. Heard she is a great writer, too.
Fred Astaire was said to dance "a little" by an agent.
Tracie Thoms tried and tried to get the role of "Joanne" in the play and never could 'get the part'. She was dumbstruck when asked if she'd like to do the movie.
Carol Burnett had many comments about how she was not attractive enough for television or show business.
Yes, there are many stories of those who were told to "give up" or that they were "not good enough". Yet, they believed it and achieved it!
Love and Stage Lights,
Angela Theresa