Posted: 4/26/18 at 4:34pm
Cat Guy said: "At 71, I am a small guy (5' 7" and 125 lbs). My husband is also 71 and has similar stats. We adhere to a strict vegan diet. We enjoy a vigorous exercise regimen. We don't smoke tobacco, drink alcohol or use other drugs. Even so, we each have had health issues (3 heart attacks for me, 1 for him). For that reason, we really try to stay as fit and healthy as possible. We realize, however, that others may not do the same (for whatever reason), and we try not to pass our judgment on them.
Last year, in celebration of our 50th anniversary together, we saw the touring company production of "An American in Paris". The seats were TINY. When we arrived, a gentleman of considerable size was seated to my left. This was the first time I've encountered this sort of situation. We began to chat, and he apologized if he was taking up any of my space. I told him not to worry; that I would just lean closer to my husband if necessary. Throughout the time we sat together, he did what he could not to intrude. He had as much entitlement to enjoy the show as did I. We spoke again at intermission, and said "goodbye" as we left. Would I have wished that I was a bit more comfortable in my seat? Of course. But in this case, just a little friendly chat helped keep it from being a completely unpleasant evening.
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Thank you for sharing your experience and insight. This was the best post in this entire thread.
