My vote is DEFINITELY for Next To Normal. The acting and singing are WONDERFUL in it. Billy Elliot, I think, is incredibly overhyped. Is it a good show? Yes. Would I go see it again? Not if I had to pay for a ticket. I thought the score was decent at best. The acting was fine. The only things this show has over Next To Normal are the big set (I actually prefer Next To Normal's set--it works better for the show than Billy's does for it) and the choreography.
And the fact the the 3 boys beat out Brian D'Arcy James and J. Robert Spencer for Best Actor? Are we really to believe that these boys (who are like 12 or 13) are giving a better performance than the other more seasoned actors? Honestly, I think the Tony voting committee got carried away with the hype of Billy Elliot. Yes, they are good--but they are NOT giving a performance that is nearly as deep or well acted as J. Robert Spencer.
"If it walks like a Parks, if it wobbles like a Parks, then it's definitely fat and nobody loves it." --MA