PalJoey said: "Why not go all out and Fed Ex a letter to the company manager, Brig Berney, at the Richard Rodgers Theatre, 226 W. 46th St., and explain things? Maybe, if they're in a generous mood, they'll arrange a brief chat with some cast members for you and your daughter. Worth a shot, at least, right?
I never, ever agree with newintown, but that's a wonderful idea.Be sure to include the part about your daughter wanting to be a swing when she grows up. That's very charming, and the company manager might just share it with one of the swings. Good luck!
My daughter actually sent her first fan letter ever to the attention of Lin and the cast of Hamilton about a month ago. I included a little note similar to my one above as well, mentioning that she was a huge fan and an young performer and that we'd be in the area on the 1st of April. I think we were a bit naive that the letter would be seen in time, though.
I think barring some miracle connection, I'll plan to hurry to the stage door after the show and hope she can say hi to the performers then.
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