In regards to the Nessa confessa, line, I always heard it as a tentative pause, like, "Nessa, I have something to confess...uh......"
I ADORE Grey Gardens, but I don't like and never really understood the racist song Big Edie sings, 'Hominy Grits'. I took offense because I get they were trying to show Big Edie lacking the decorum of a lady at that time, but as a Grey Gardens buff, there has never been any indicators of Big Edie being racist. Actually she was known to be pretty accepting of diverse people. The lyrics of that song are just offensive and I think it paints Big Edie in a less sympathetic light and its untrue and unfounded.
"Remember, you're an old time Mammy-poor as dirt, true, but rich in the wisdom of the ages."
"Once ya done yer picking, you get fried chicken!"
"Next to watermelon, there ain't no tellin'. Thems the bestest vittles us colored folks gits."
"The sexual energy between the mother and son really concerns me!"-random woman behind me at Next to Normal
"I want to meet him after and bang him!"-random woman who exposed her breasts at Rock of Ages, referring to James Carpinello