A plea for civility.
This site attracts people who love theatre. This is a community of affinity that includes a great many different tastes.... a big part of what makes all that theatre offers so alluring to so many people. Something to be celebrated one might think. But so many of us find in it a reason for snark and contentiousness, including myself I fully admit.
I concede it's a huge culture shock to me, as it is to a number of people, to read a number of posts which show that MY FAIR LADY, of all shows, invites so much criticism of its book and score. ("YOU DON'T LIKE THIS MUSIC, ARE YOU SERIOUS? ARE YOU INSANE" I fully admit, I feel like shouting... but then it's time for a deep breath and to realize we aren't discussing impending nuclear war, we are talking about a musical for Christ's sake!).
I admit that it seems absurd to me that so many people who are fans of what I personally - and subjectively - see as absolute crap can't understand the joys of MY FAIR LADY.
I admit that I find it hard to understand how there can possibly be seasoned theatregoers who don't get the thematic relation of "I'm Getting Married in the Morning," as eleven o'clock number clearly but begrudgingly celebrating two of the major interrelated potential fates for both Eliza and Alfred - middle class morality and matrimony - to the arc of the overall story being told. To me - but that's just me - it's obvious: presenting, in the most entertaining and witty and (at least at one time) crowd pleasing fashion, Alfred's destiny as either perfect foil or imperfect but still somewhat palatable model (all depending on what Eliza decides to do with her life) for Eliza's own.
I find all of this quite hard to believe. And, honestly, I find it sad.
But that's me. I'm not such a narcissist (although I certainly have my moments) as to believe my way of looking at theatre is the definitive way, or that anyone else's way is per se inferior. Just as my views are molded by my own unique experiences and worldview, and on my age, class, gender, ethnic and social background and education, so are everyone else's.
I accept that. We are a multicultural group of people of different ages, tastes, backgrounds and inclinations. Isn't that our strength?
Some of us came of age worshipping Frank Loesser and or Lorraine Hansberry, some Andrew Lloyd Webber, and or Neil Simon, others the Disney shows and or (fill in with flavor of the month, or maybe just maybe here to stay in the canon, dramatist). A little empathy and understanding that if "I were in the other person's shoes, I might just hold the same or similar views which, as it is, being me, I find, to put it mildly, disconcertingly foreign."
That kind of empathy might be a nice thing.
Updated On: 3/31/18 at 08:39 AM