I saw this really well researched documentary on health disparities in the US, and interestingly enough, our response to health issues is not very much informed by our parents' response to their own, but rather how our grandparents responded to health problems. Given Rosie's Irish background, this complete denial doesn't surprise me at all.
My own late mother was one of those "never sick a day in my life" type women, in her house growing up in the depression, there was not medical care. Her grandparents were back in Ireland, and to them the body was a mystery. By the time my mom grew up, she was fully inculcated in the legends of the working class: "Mrs. So and So was never sick a day in her life and she went to the doctor and they felt something and told her it was probably nothing to worry about but they were going to cut her open to explore, and as soon as the air hit it it spread all over her body and she was dead in three weeks. She would still be alive if she hadn't gone to the doctor."
That was how she thought. She rarely got sick. But like a lot of Irish people born in the '20s, she smoked starting in her teens. One weekend, when I was somewhere in my 30s, my mom didn't feel good and spent a weekend in bed. "I'm never sick!" she kept saying. Many months later, she had a passing out incident at the Goodspeed Opera House ("was there swearing in the show?" I asked) and ended up in the hospital. All evidence pointed to a massive heart attack back on that weekend when she "didn't feel well."
That's all a long way of saying, people can become very detached from their physical bodies for all sorts of reasons. That, to me, sounds like Rosie. A 99% blockage seems insane to me, with all her risk factors, they didn't know this? I'm glad she made it this time, but I'm also a little shocked that the woman who was devastated by her own mother's death would be so foolish now that she has kids of her own. There comes a time when it stops being about you, and you have to take care of yourself so you'll be around for your g.d. young kids.
And I am sure if Rosie had found it somewhere within herself not to stick with the verse structure, people here wouldn't be so inclined to do it too.
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