Posted: 11/26/24 at 5:31am
DramaTeach said: "Hated this show, but was thrilled by its leading lady. Give her a Tony and shut the thing down. I found the choreography, mostly in the songswith the ensemble, ridiculous (why are we twerking in 1945?!), the lack of sets and even props disappointing (why are these tickets so expensive?!), the modern black and white costumes jarring (if you’re going for amovie “black and white movie” theme, why can’t they be old black and white fashions?!), and the videography a complete distraction and a copyof other shows that already tried it. Can we, as an audience, not be trusted to realize that the struggles a woman faced with aging in 1945 still apply today? Does it have to be so overtly thrown in our faces?
Scherzinger is this show. Her “Never Said Goodbye” was incredibly moving and powerful. That’s theonly reason to see this show."
I personally don’t see the struggles faced by actresses, or women in general, of today as even being comparable to what it was back then. SB was a musical of its time and must be played to that era to make that female struggle believable.
Actresses today have all kinds of opportunities. Some of the greatest actresses today are aging actresses. And they still get plum roles. Women don’t age out today nearly as much as they did decades ago.
And even in the day to day lives of your average woman, I don’t see it either. Of course, my opinion might be shadowed by the fact I’m gay, where aging out is very real. But I’m in my 50s and I have female friends who are divorced, widows or never been married and when they’ve tried dating apps, they say they get hit on all the time by younger men. And these aren’t guys necessarily looking for sugar mamas. They just like older women. So if a woman can’t find a man her age, the range is still pretty wide open.
As an older gay man, well, that is really where aging out is alive and real. Which is why I don’t buy that the issue facing Norma is still a problem today. At least in the areas of entertainment…and dating.
I’m in good shape and considered good looking based on what people have told me. But if I walk into a bar with a female friend, and some younger guy comes up to the bar to order a drink, if she hits on him her chances of going home with him are way better than my chances of going home with some younger gay dude who I hit on. In fact, she’d probably get a “sure” in response, while I’d get “are you gen?” or “what’s in it for me?”
Did the Normas of the 40s have trouble landing roles? Yep. Did they often age out? Yep.
But I don’t see that as an issue today.
