Skylark3 said: "Well, Ben isn't the only one with diagnosed anxiety. So, there's that.
Theres been a fair amount of anticipation (and money spent), so there's that.
My mother, who is 80, fell in love with him on TV, so the tix were a present for her, so there's that.
Ugh.
As for understudies, I get it. I've seen some great ones (including Donna Murphy going on for Betty Buckley in Drood -- she was a sensation). But the myth and hype around Ben's performance is one of the reasons I booked the tix and the trip. It would be like going to see Mame and getting Lansbury's understudy.
happy birthday, Mom.
Sorry to be such an Eeyore, especially since we don't know that he won't be there at Sunday's matinee. But, but #%>!
I think what you want to hear, is usually what I want to hear when I'm stressed out, and that's just a simple, collective, agreeable: yes, it sucks.
To the other's points you do have options. You can talk to the box office about exchanges, you can try to make your trip a couple days longer if possible, you can simply stay and enjoy the unique experience of the understudy (who we have all heard is great!). Or, perhaps this is all for not and Ben will be there! Yes he has to listen to the doctors but it really, truly sounds like he'll be back as soon as he is physically able. Good luck!!