I'm not sure if you mean to take the songs out of context or not. Some songs require offense lyrics based on the opinions and expressions of the character. At any rate...
The Very Next Man - Fiorello
Spanglish - Seesaw
Spanish Rose - Bye Bye Birdie
I Hate Men - Kiss Me, Kate
I am Ashamed That Women are So Simple - Kiss Me, Kate
In Praise of Women - A Little Night Music
My Strongest Suit - Aida
Happy to Keep His Dinner Warm - How to Succeed
Hymn to Him - My Fair Lady
"What can you expect from a bunch of seitan worshippers?" - Reginald Tresilian