mandresser said: "Also I would advise that IF such a policy were in place, it would probably be better to respect that than to try to find sneaky ways to get "around" it by catching them at other exits w/e
I doubt that anyone has anything other than the best of intentions and it's just about appreciating the actors and their work, but I think there is something to trying to give them a degree of stabilization."
Re: the policy... Lesli had mentioned it numerous times on her Broadway.com vlog.
And they're not trying to be sneaky by going out another exit. If they're trying to let the kids be normal but having them go out the regular stage door, they'll still be bombarded by people, taking photos of them, trying to get them to sign things, etc. It's still not normal. Stage door can get crazy.
But the big point... stage door isn't mandatory. No one is forcing any cast member to stage door. They don't owe the audience anything besides the performance they gave on stage. Yes, a good number come out, but it's by their own free will. However, no one should fault a cast member (whether a child or adult) to not stage door.