Ok, so here's the conclusion I've come to having watched the show again:
I almost feel like, with the exception of a couple of songs (Being Alive being the most obvious), the show would work better WITHOUT the music. I just... am not a fan of the score. Sorry, I'm not. I love Marry Me a Little and Being Alive, and there are a couple of others that are alright, but over all the music actually made the show more
boring for me. Truly, in the moments where it was just straight acting, I was SO captivated and I loved it. The writing for the straight scenes is just wonderful, and the entire cast was SO strong acting wise (Raul was still clearly my favorite, but I'm hugely biased of course hehe). I just really did not like a lot of the score, to the point where it was actually a turn off for me.
But that said, the performances were so good that it was still a beautiful, generally captivating piece of theater. And I am SO pleased with the way it was shot. OMG why can't all shows be filmed and released like that? Seriously, it was just GORGEOUS. It's such a great thing to have for posterity.
Oh, and once again I've come to the conclusion that Raul Esparza is one of the greatest stage actors of our time. Yup. :) Being Alive is SO FRIGGIN FIERCE it's ridiculous.
I don't need a life that's normal. That's way too far away. But something next to normal would be okay. Something next to normal is what I'd like to try. Close enough to normal to get by.