Jay, you know fair well I have responded thoughtfully and open-mindedly to you because you complimented me for doing so in a response in another thread. But the more I tried to engage with you in a substantive manner, the more you demonstrated you weren't open to others' perspectives. In my earlier comment here (#31), I also did not name you or slander you, but instead spoke generally about a type of commenter, trying to be considerate.
There is nothing wrong with having strong convictions and sticking to them. But if someone repeatedly express the same points, it isn't surprising that people grow tired of it.
And it is a bit disingenuous to say we're all talking about the same show. You want to talk about why you think the show should not be supported because of J.K. Rowling. The thread is about the staging of the touring production. Not the same topics at all.
If you feel strongly that there is something new to be said or a productive discussion to be had about J.K.Rowling or other "problematic" artists and indirectly supporting them, perhaps you could try starting another thread focusing on that topic. Whether it also gets locked probably depends on the nature of any subsequent discussion.
In my professional role, I facilitate dozens of meetings every month. One of the principles we use in our discussions comes from the Quaker tradition. If someone in a meeting or conversation has expressed themselves and made their point, but the group does not agree, at some point it becomes incumbent upon that individual to let the group and the discussion advance. Part of being a member of any community or conversation is acknowledging when we've said our piece, but others feel differently and any further debate is likely to be unproductive.
Updated On: 10/17/23 at 09:47 AM