DAME said: "I like Donna but I actually agree with most of what you say . And I would say most people do as well. Except for here. Remember this is BWW and a lot ( not all) of the posters here can't afford a Bette ticket and need to justify themselves . And Donna is terrific . But she doesn't touch Bette. She just doesn't . There are a lot of people outside of the 5 queens that post over and over again here ."
Oh, come on, DAME. Now those of us who find Donna Murphy to be an incomparable star are simply praising her on this thread (which, by the way, was mostly created as a place of love for the "5 queens that post over and over again here"
because we need to "justify" ourselves for supposedly not being able to afford tickets to see Midler? Why does it bother you so much that us "5 queens" found a space to connect and unabashedly revel in our love for Murphy and Murphy's turn as Dolly? It's funny (or not funny at all, really) that you position this thread as sort of being an overwhelming voice when, in fact, by nature it represents a small voice in light of the countless threads and comments and reviews focused on Bette Midler's performance. Our passion for Donna Murphy is so harmless that I'm baffled by your need to come here, dismiss our passion through an asinine and fallacious class-based claim peppered with some minor queen-bashing (and saying that you're a queen yourself only makes the casual homophobia in your claim more confounding), and remind everyone that Donna Murphy is not a star like Bette Midler is (no sh¡t).
Personally I have the option of buying tickets to Bette Midler's show, something I understand as a privilege and not as something that makes my comments more valid somehow. I'm instead going to see Donna Murphy for a third time on her final performance. Now I don't live in the city, so I have to choose what I see carefully, and I will always choose Murphy over Midler. She's simply my favorite stage actress--beyond that, what she does with Dolly is stunning, with no qualifiers or excuses or caveats. I'm sure Midler is spectacular and brilliant and all of that. See? I can have no doubt in my mind that Murphy is the best Dolly I (personally) could have asked for without having to dismiss your equal levels of passion and adoration for Midler. In fact, I am grateful that Midler's box office power was able to make this production happen and that her fame gave her the ability to not only negotiate an alternate but to ensure that the alternate was someone of Murphy's caliber.
And I should mention, I have no issues with people who were unimpressed with Murphy or found her lacking. My specific issue is with DAME's petty dismissal of our Donna love or our Donna as Dolly love through a silly class-based argument that somehow manages to reframe the overwhelming love on this thread as a threat to Midler's legacy.
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