I'm with sabrelady. "Don't curse the darkness, light a candle. Keep hoping."
My daughter suffered a subdural hematoma shortly after she was born. Some of the medical team thought there was no hope and recommended just letting her die. Fortunately, the on-site pediatrician felt differently and arranged for her to be transported to another hospital where one of the nation's top pediatric neurosurgeons could operate.
My daughter will be 13 in a few weeks. She does have challenges, but she has an excellent quality of life...and she has enriched the lives of many, many others.
"Be on your guard! Jerks on the loose!"
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