I've had a few terrible rejections, but who hasn't, right? The two that come to mind happened when I was younger.
The first time involved a production of "The King & I". I was contracted with another show (in a very small role) when the director for "King & I" calls up and pleads with me to break my contract and play Louis for her. We chatted for a bit about the character and I decided to accept. So I gracefully bowed out of the other production and committed myself to playing Louis. I was called in to sing with the Anna hopefuls and everything was going well. Then...I get a not-so-pleasantly worded e-mail from the director explaining that I should beg the other company to let me have my role back because she decided that her niece should play Louisa, following in her father's footsteps (he had played Louis for this company many years earlier.) Not only was I out of a job, I was humiliated by the fact that I was replaced by a girl in a role clearly written for a boy just like me. Not to mention, how do you just rewrite history? It's not like Anna and Louis weren't based on real people! Anyway... (I swear, I'm over it

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The second time came a few years later. I had just finished a lengthy, award-winning run as Hero in "...Forum" and was contracted to reprise my role for a different company the following year. At the closing performance I was approached by the director of another theatre company that was about to begin rehearsals for their production of the show. He explained that he didn't have a Hero cast yet and that he would be thrilled if I would do it. Of course I said yes and we began to work out the details of the contract. Everything seemed perfect and I was genuinely excited to play Hero for this director. A few weeks passed with no word on rehearsals, so I finally contacted the director to ask him when I needed to be there. He then informed me that he had decided to go with someone who "isn't really very good, but he's Pseudolus' roommate and he's a lot cheaper." I couldn't help but laugh even though it really did hurt.
So; the moral of the story, boys and girls, is that you shouldn't get your heart set on something until the contract has been signed!
Take care and love to all,
Joshua
My lip gloss is poppin'...