Bettyboy72 said: "The house manager at the Belasco told fans at Girl that Shubert houses are not allowing stage dooring and fans will be sent away."
If so, no one told Potus/Schubert. Saw cast and fans there last weekend and a few fans seeking 'graphs as cast went in this past Wed.
SD'ing has been alive and well at Lehman and TMO. Three leads come out. Michael Oberholtzer came out last Sunday as well.. Remaining actors either weren't interested and went out main doors or came out SD but kept walking. No masks on fans. Jessie Williams gave instructions on how to take a selfie. He'd stand in place and fans got their pix. Mike O. willingly did selfies for those who asked. Jesse F did as well.
The most organized pre pandemic SD was Bryan Cranston's because it required ticket proof w/fans filed past Bryan one-at-a-time and his assistant took pic of Bryan w/fan. Kept the dealers and non-attendees away, alot of whom I've seen at TMO with show unrelated stuff. Jessie W told one dealer "2 is all I'll sign."
When the subject of stage-dooring has arisen in these threads, my response has always been the same: Stage-dooring is creepy. But after reading the posts in this thread, and reflecting upon some of the issues surrounding stage-dooring (safety and Covid for example), I have revised my opinion. I now believe that stage-dooring is REALLY creepy.
Highland Guy said: "When the subject of stage-dooring has arisen in these threads, my response has always been the same: Stage-dooring is creepy. But after reading the posts in this thread, and reflecting upon some of the issues surrounding stage-dooring (safety and Covid for example), I have revised my opinion. I now believe that stage-dooring isREALLYcreepy."
Yeah I have to agree. Pre-shutdown I would’ve been one of the people rushing out of the theater post-curtain call to get a good spot for a selfie with some performers, but now I also find the practice creepy. It shouldn’t be allowed.
I agree with the creepiness factor of all it all and those on here that are attempting to defend their reasons for doing so are doing themselves absolutely no favors.
"Opinions are very interesting because we all have different ones. You are entitled to your opinion, but that does not mean you should always give it to others, especially when your opinion is not necessarily grounded in truth, but in what you believe or want to believe."
White_Lotus said: "I agree with the creepiness factor of all it all and those on here that are attempting to defend their reasons for doing so are doing themselves absolutely no favors."
This doesn't have to do with stage dooring but I'm posting it here anyway:
I sat next to a lovely young lady at this past Wednesday's matinee of TAKE ME OUT. She mentioned that she'd flown up from Orlando that morning just to see the show because she was a great fan of Jesse Williams. She'd be flying back at 10 pm and was hoping to meet Jesse W at the stage door but none of the actors came out. I took a picture of her standing next to his photo outside the theater. Kindda sad.
White_Lotus said: "I agree with the creepiness factor of all it all and those on here that are attempting to defend their reasons for doing so are doing themselves absolutely no favors."
Unclear what that means. Why would anyone have to defend themselves?
For those actors and patrons who choose not to participate, that's fine. But those fans and actors who do so willingly are likewise making their choice. They're enjoying an event that has a long history in both theater and sports. To each their own.
Also count me among the people who think that at least one or two of y'all are among the people stage dooring right now. No one smells it this much, unless they're dealing it.
(@hearthemsing, you're suspect #1 in this. Just so you know)
Also count me among the people who think that at least one or two of y'all are among the people stage dooring right now. No one smells it this much, unless they're dealing it.
(@hearthemsing, you're suspect #1 in this. Just so you know)"
You may not always agree with me. You may hate my posts and think I’m annoying. But I can guarantee you, I have not been to the stagedoor of a performance in a long time. I don’t understand how I’m suspect number 1 when I *swear*, literally swear I have not been going to the stagedoor. I dropped off playbills to be signed at two shows (with playbills and self addressed stamped envelopes), but other than that, I have literally not been stagedooring. I was thinking back pre-shutdown to the shows I saw, and I honestly can not remember what the last show I stagedoored for was. Stop making assumptions, because we all know what happens when you assume. Why would I write this if I were lying and actually stagedooring? I wouldn’t lie.
My favorite part of this thread is that it is word for word the exact same pearl clutching and faux outrage that’s been posted a thousand times before, yet everyone always thinks they’re saying something new and making new “points”.
Jordan Catalano said: "My favorite part of this thread is that it is word for word the exact same pearl clutching and faux outrage that’s been posted a thousand times before, yet everyone always thinks they’re saying something new and making new “points”."
And that it’s cool to assume someone is doing something they’re NOT, and that it’s okay to assume they are and not open their minds to the fact that the person they’re assuming is actually telling the TRUTH. God. What do you want? A picture of the photos I’ve taken since pre-shutdown to prove I’m not lying??
lolol you think I have energy to waste on caring if you go to a stage door or not? I don’t. I don’t care if ANYONE does. If the actors are signing and taking pics (Hugh is taking pics with people after “Music Man”, I see online) then that’s what they’re doing and it’s their choice and if people go and wait that’s cool, too. I did it in London this month a few times and it was awesome to talk to some actors again because it’s a thing thats happening there and, just as I predicted a year ago, it would gradually start happening here again and it has.
So like I say in all the other threads about this stupid issue - if actors are choosing to come out and sign and you want to get your playbill signed, have at it. And for anyone reading this, don’t forget to start a new thread about stage doors in a few weeks where the exact same stupid conversation will take place.
You may not care, but people LOVE to assume I have been when I have NOT. And it bothers me that people would think I’m lying or accuse me of lying. Think I’m annoying all you want-but don’t assume when I’m telling you the truth. Otherwise that makes you look ridiculous.
It doesn’t matter. Honestly. It doesn’t f’in matter.
Watch this -
Hey guys. I went to the stage door for Pam Anderson and it was amazing. Sweetest lady around and was able to get something signed and she was so nice and obviously loved doing it and being around fans who loved her.
I’m also gonna treasure the pic I got with Amy Adams last week and our conversation about “Drop Dead Gorgeous” when we quoted lines to each other and cracked each other up.
Do I give TWO SH*TS what people think of me for participating in something those actresses willingly wanted to do for people who saw the show? No. The only people who care either way are people who don’t know you and only have an opinion because they think it gets them “likes” online. F*ck ‘em. Words to live by.
Jordan Catalano said: "It doesn’t matter. Honestly. It doesn’t f’in matter.
Watch this -
Hey guys. I went to the stage door for Pam Anderson and it was amazing. Sweetest lady around and was able to get something signed and she was so nice and obviously loved doing it and being around fans who loved her.
I’m also gonna treasure the pic I got with Amy Adams last week and our conversation about “Drop Dead Gorgeous” when we quoted lines to each other and cracked each other up.
Do I give TWO SH*TS what people think of me for participating in something those actresses willingly wanted to do for people who saw the show? No. The only people who care either way are people who don’t know you and only have an opinion because they think it gets them “likes” online. F*ck ‘em. Words to live by."
Preach.
If the performers are OK with doing stage door, then let them. They're not forced to do it. There's many that miss the fan interaction after the show. And if they're not comfortable, then they won't greet fans. Simple as that.
Actors can make up their own mind whether they are comfortable interacting with people or not. They are not there if they don't want to be. And if patrons want to congratulate them after the show or leave right away, it's a personal choice and it's absolutely none of my business.
I’ve been going to see Broadway shows since I was a kid in the early 1970s. Even as a kid I found it weird walking out of a theatre with my family after a performance and seeing people outside the stage door with their Playbills waiting to get autographs. What did they do with the actor’s signature? What was the purpose? Even today where I have friends who are performers both on Broadway and in television and films, I still don’t get the hysteria of a selfie with them and/or their autograph. The Broadway pals feel it’s part of the Broadway ritual - you walk outside the stage door after a performance and sign Playbills. It’s a tradition. The pals who work in television and film just feel imposed upon if they are approached in public. They’re nice to these fans, but just want to get the ph**k out of the encounter.
I could write an entire paragraph talking about how weird I think it is when sports fans to any number of things but those are things that make them happy for whatever reason and taking time to complain about it online would only make me look weird so *shrug*
Well this thread took another interesting turn while I was at my matinee.
Let's be very clear on something. For your entire life, people are going to assume things about you. People you know are going to assume things about you. If people you know are gonna do it (which, and I cannot repeat/stress this enough, they are), then how much more do you think strangers on the internet are going to? If those things aren't true, then great for you. But even more importantly...why do you care? Especially on an anonymous board, who the heck cares what people you don't even know think? If you're really telling the truth, then what do you care what a bunch of, as you say, strangers think?
Like Jordan said, a good life tip is to stop caring what other people say/think. Especially strangers on an anonymous board. One thing I'll add, however, is that taking the "say what you want, I don't care" attitude will make people more apt to believe your story. Much more so than if you get all defensive.