I will NOT stand just because others are standing. Likewise, I don't care if I am the ONLY one standing if I think either the entire show or an individual actor was outstanding.
I don't believe the show has to be life altering, but outstanding and delightful TO ME. Shows I did NOT stand up for: Rent, Curtains, Phantom, the new ACL, Urinetown, just to name a few. In some cases I only "enjoyed" the production and in others I actaully was unimpressed.
Do I think the standing O is overused and often not warranted? Certainly. Is there anything to be done about it? Probably not.
I stick to my convictions, and that's all I can do.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.