Yes, the idea if canceling someone to the point of destroying lives is ridiculous. I won't knowingly spend a dime on The Salvation Army, Chick-fil-a, Hobby Lobby or Mel Gibson. You might choose to....and while I wouldn't care if any/all of them fell on bad times, I'm not aiming for that. Like my vote, the way I spend my money has worth...to me.
Last summer two of my students did a terribly stupid thing involving a small theft...which they ridiculously posted a video of. The police and their parents were both involved. That wasn't good enough for some families in the community and they actively sought to find out what colleges these kids had been accepted to so they could inform them and hopefully get them kicked out. Why? Because every mistake is life changing? Ridiculous.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.