i don't really like the term gender. How would you classify a drag queen. By definition of gender, a drag queen is a women.
What part of, "brain determines gender," was too difficult for you? I have known drag performers who were also trans. Outside of their stage personas, they were female. They felt female and lived as such. 98% of the drag queens I have ever known or followed were not trans and, as such, off stage lived as men. That's like saying you need to refer to Martin Sheen as Mr. President, since he played one on TV. While drag queens are on stage, they are giving off the illusion of the female gender.
As for you not liking the term, who gives a sh!t what words you don't approve of? Not liking a word doesn't change the fact that you are wrong. I don't like the term, "fat." That doesn't make my ass any smaller.
Pretty pretty please don't you ever ever feel like you're less than
f**ckin' perfect!