It's very weird to say this, but I don't really know how many times I've seen U2.
I saw them every step of the way, from tiny clubs to theaters to arenas. I think the above-referenced Toad's Place show is the one Bono talked about during the rock and roll hall of fame speech about him getting into a fight with The Edge.
I have a very distinct memory of him kicking Larry's ass as they walked off stage before the encore. I also remember talking to my friends about Larry and asking if he was old enough to even be in the club, he looked about 9. What was funny about the first three times I saw them was that the audience was less than half the size of the number of people who were inside the stage elipse on this tour!
The first stop I saw 'em on the October tour, it was in a club that was a converted bowling alley. When a band with a big audience played, they were on the "big stage" and crowd capacity was a couple thousand. When U2 played there, they played the small stage, which maybe accommodated 500-600 people in the audience. My friend Prudence and I were right at the front of the tiny stage. In a typically "spontaneous rock star moment" of Bono's, he leaned over to me and Prudence during "Out of Control" and said, "pull me in!" He was instructing us to make him crowd surf over us.
That's the thing I find endlessly fascinating about U2. How such complete hokum also manages to come across as heartfelt. I'm not a fan of big arena shows, but somehow they manage to make even those feel intimate. I really don't know how they do it.
Also, inevitably, Bono does something so pre-packaged and planned and manipulative that I am SHOCKED that I always find myself weeping at a rock concert. THREE TIMES last night he made me cry. THREE TIMES.
I guess what I love is the total theatricality, in the best sense of the word. It's rock theater on a grand scale, and it works so well that it pulls me in.
I saw them multiple times on the Boy, October, War tours and then I think only once on Unforgettable Fire. As far as I can recall, I was never able to score tickets for any concerts after that, they just suddenly were the new Rolling Stones and tickets vanished within 90 seconds of going on sale.
I was pleased to get tickets for this tour, just by hitting "refresh" a lot on the Ticketmaster site when the third Boston date went on sale. (I have since heard that Ticketmaster now has a time-out thing that kicks you out for hitting "refresh" too many times. To "prevent scalpers.")
I was far from the stage and still sucked in. My friend Eric said, "It's just stupid rock star moves and Bono somehow makes it all work."
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