A couple of weeks back, someone asked why DIDN'T Ben marry Sally in 1941, since Phyllis needed "work" ("I'm not much now, I know that, but I'll read and I'll study and I'll walk my feet off in the Metropolitan museum", or something like that) and Sally likely was of the same ilk.
This has been nagging at me ever since then; what made Phyllis better wife material? I think Sally was a bit of a puttana (pardon my Italian), good in the sack. The script tells us that Phyllis lost it in a rumble seat, she cried about her mom, etc...it was awkward. Sally really REALLY wanted Ben--I'm a lesbo so I don't have much experience with this, but I've always heard that if you treat a girl like sh*t, they come running, that sort of thing...and usually, the more desperate girls--the ones who really throw themselves at the guy--aren't the ones the men choose, because it's not a challenge. This is the case with Sally, right? Doesn't she have (had?) a line where she says something like "you could have had him but you played it all wrong" and says something about going to bed with him too soon?
Any thoughts on that?
"I chose and my world was shaken--so what? The choice may have been mistaken, the choosing was not. You have to move on"