I think that applause at the end of a performance is customary, and somewhat obligatory, like tipping, as previously mentioned.
I think that standing ovations, on the whole, are not. I often hate giving standing ovations when I am not moved.
If i may shift the topic slightly, entrance applause is another thing - I have a friend that HATES HATES HATES entrance applause. However, I think that with a proper "star entrance", entrance applause can feel very natural, particularly in musical comedy - as in Gypsy, Dreamgirls (a brilliant triple-star entrance) and Young Frankenstein, which mediocre as it was, had some of the best star entrances ever.
Entrance applause is a weird thing that varies in its appropriateness - either the play/musical is not holding our attention, and we applaud the "star" outside the world of the play, or we are having such fun, that when the fun builds to an even greater level with the entrance of someone we love, we applaud to show that we are in the world of the play. Interestingly enough, Nathan Lane was given a big "star entrance" in the Goodman's "Iceman Cometh", throwing bills in the air, doing a grapevine across the stage, throwing bills into the air, while the rest of the cast cheered his entrance - but the audience was SO enraptured in the world of the play and in the anticipation of this character that there was NO entrance applause, which in this case, was very fitting. But with, say, Sherie Rene Scott's entrance in "Dirty Rotten Scoundrels" - you can't help but to applaud. The show has been fun and silly, and she enters on a laugh line - simply an awesome star entrance that the applause that follows only deepens the world of the play. It's an interesting phenom.
Going back through the thread, I saw the Joel Grey story - that is presumptuous, because honestly, he is not given a "star entrance" in Wicked (because, lo and behold, he is not the star). And in that essence, it becomes a weird thing...do you? do you not?
I also have thoughts on laughing and the holding back of doing so, but that's another thread.
Updated On: 5/12/12 at 12:23 AM