Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:04pm
B'Way Beauty Sex Bust — Page 6
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:11pm
If said incident did occur, than both parties were consenting. Barbour is still in the wrong because by law it is illegal. This law is slightly ridiculous SOMETIMES in my opinion because if a person wants to have sex just before it is "legal" with someone who is even just passed the legal age then that is there choice. Yet they can turn around and sue for everything the "adult" has.
So yes, by law what Barbour did was illegal, but if she wanted to do it (which it sounds to me like she did) then as the adult she is now she should do the right thing by dropping charges. If for some reason her early loss of "innocence" did cause her some type of emotion distress then she should discuss this with a psychiatrist (and ask Barbour to pay for it). But I don't see how you can sue for something when it takes two to commit a crime.
That's just me....I'm putting it out there...if you don't like feel free to send it back :)
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:12pm
Identification of alleged rape victims by media outlets
As a matter of courtesy, most newspapers and broadcast media in the United States do not disclose the name of an alleged rape victim (the complaining witness) during the trial, and if the alleged rapist is convicted, most will continue to not identify the victim. If the case is dropped or the alleged rapist is acquitted, most media will no longer shield the name of the complaining witness. This practice was probably related to laws in some states which made it a crime to publicly reveal the name of the complaining witness in a rape case. When such laws were challenged in court, they were routinely struck down as unconstitutional.
The article goes on to give some case studies where these laws were brought into play.
EDIT -- below is a link to a CNN.com article I found regarding the Kobe Bryant case that discusses Rape Shield laws in more detail than in the wikipedia blurb I referenced above.
http://www.cnn.com/2003/LAW/10/16/rape.confidential/
Updated On: 12/7/06 at 03:12 PM
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:18pm
BroadwayBoobs: I'll give all of you who weren't there a hint of who took the pictures ...it rhymes with shameless
SOMMS: I knew it was Tink!
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:24pm
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:29pm
It's not like the Michael Jackson case, this man is not ridiculously wealthy. Has anyone become famous after alleging rape from a d-lister like him?
His career is over. He won’t be able to act in many shows; a lot of them have children. I wonder what the union says
Updated On: 12/7/06 at 03:29 PM
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:34pm
research regarding coverage of sexual assault victims
various studies indicate that crime victims, especially sexual assault victims, would be more likely to participate in the criminal justice system if the media were more respectful of their privacy. data from the national women's study presented in rape in america: a report to the nation found that 84 percent of rape victims in america do not report the crime to police. the study reported that:
half of rape victims (50 percent) would be "a lot more likely to report" to police if there was a law prohibiting the news media from disclosing their name and address; 16 percent indicated that they would be "somewhat more likely to report" rapes to the police.
almost 9 out of 10 women (86 percent) felt victims would be "less likely" to report rapes if they felt their names would be disclosed by the news media.
an overwhelming majority of women (75 percent), rape victims (78 percent), and rape service agencies (91 percent) favored legislation that would prohibit media disclosure of rape victims' names.3
recent surveys of american newspaper editors have shown that, as a general rule, many do not print the names of rape victims. In 1982, a study found that 68 percent of the editors surveyed believed that names of rape victims should not be printed.4 In 1990, another survey of editors indicated that about 10 percent believed that the rape victims' names should never be printed; 40 percent believed that they should be printed only with the victims' permission; and 44 percent believed that they should be printed only in exceptional cases.5
...global warming can manifest itself as heat, cool, precipitation, storms, drought, wind, or any other phenomenon, much like a shapeshifter. -- jim geraghty
pray to st. jude
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he was the gimmicky sort
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Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:37pm
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:44pm
I was so happy to see Amy Fisher come around and speak out against Joey Buttafuco after her release from prison. If you remember, she fell in "love" with Joey, then plotted and tried to murder his wife Mary Jo. Sure, what she did was evil and wrong, but Amy was a victim here. Joey failed to understand that Amy was still a child and would act like such. Even if their sex was consensual, he crossed a line. If he had just stopped and been an adult, maybe things would be different. Instead, he ruined the lives of his wife, Amy and his family.
Updated On: 12/7/06 at 03:44 PM
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:55pm
and do you KNOW 15 year olds now a days? I've sure heard PLENTY of them say things that would make your hair curl. I believe most teenagers are sexually active by 15, so why not with a 30 year old. Not too suprising to me anymore. I think it's WRONG, but that's how it goes now. My friend is a elementry school teacher and the other day she had to punish some students because they were talking about going to "go ****" in their parents jacuzzi. They are in ELEMENTRY SCHOOL. (Not to say this is how this girl was at that age.)
There is really no use arguing with you guys, I have my opinions and you all have yours. But my point is, she sounds to me like she, too, is at fault.
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:58pm
Posted: 12/7/06 at 3:59pm
I'm not sure what I believe anymore, to be honest. I guess working with sexual harassment cases has jaded me quite a bit - ten years ago, I'd have been all over the accused in a bad way!
I seriously hope, though, that none of this is true - for both parties. d- lister - ha! Funny!!
It's such a horrible thing....
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:00pm
according to one expert, until society changes its opinions about rape, victims who take advantage of the media's policy are making a good decision.
"all of the cultural signs haven't changed a whole lot in relation to consent," says myrna raeder, a law professor and former head of the american bar association's criminal justice section. "there is still a lot of blaming of the woman -- that she asked for it, look at her clothing, look at her conduct."
...global warming can manifest itself as heat, cool, precipitation, storms, drought, wind, or any other phenomenon, much like a shapeshifter. -- jim geraghty
pray to st. jude
i'm a sonic reducer
he was the gimmicky sort
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Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:13pm
It's not a "was she dressed slutty" thing, it's that she DID it.
at 15, no one can make you give them head!! you know if you want to do it or not....that's all I'm saying.
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:15pm
Please it's not like this is anything new. Kids were married at 15 not too long ago. In this case we have a LAW. He broke it. She could have begged for it, and it still does not make it legal. When I was 15 I would have done anything to "do it," and I had my share of crushes and fantasies. I can't imagine the impact of them today had they come true.
You know what I always tell my friends when there is an "age" difference in dating? I know there are exceptions to this rule. But younger people need room to grow and mature. I always question the maturity of the elder person. Why would a mature 40 year old want anything to do with a 20 year old? As you get older you see the vast differences in maturity in younger and older people. The problem with kids (17 and under) is that they are not adults. Their parents have complete control and responsibility for them.
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:30pm
Updated On: 12/7/06 at 04:30 PM
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:35pm
"I don't see why so many people on this thread don't get the SIMPLE concept of ILLEGAL. Illegal is illegal, even if he has the prettiest voice in town. " SERIOUSLY.
What's shocking here- is that if this was a clip of a broadway show or a photograph someone took during curtain call- people would be crazy arguing the legality- calling for this to be struck off the board, and the person who took the shots crucified. But sexual abuse- eh, who cares about legality- the girl must have been a slut is what so many of you seem to be saying.
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:41pm
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:45pm
...global warming can manifest itself as heat, cool, precipitation, storms, drought, wind, or any other phenomenon, much like a shapeshifter. -- jim geraghty
pray to st. jude
i'm a sonic reducer
he was the gimmicky sort
fenchurch=mejusthavingfun=magwildwood=mmousefan=bkcollector=bradmajors=somethingtotalkabout: the fenchurch mpd collective
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:45pm
But that doesn't mean that they are mature enough to handle a sexual relationship with a much older person or even someone their own age. I'm not talking morals here; I'm talking out and out not being ready to handle sex, which is a very intimate and involving thing. The way a person may dress or speak or what he or she speaks of does not indicate their level of maturity. It just indicates that they can talk a good game.
*edited for bad grammar
Updated On: 12/7/06 at 04:45 PM
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:52pm
Guaranteed.
Posted: 12/7/06 at 4:57pm
He needs help. And who is this mysterious woman with a wedding band that appeared with him in court?
Posted: 12/7/06 at 5:01pm
Please stop. You have dug yourself in so deep at this point that it dosen't matter what you say.
I threw up a little in my mouth after reading your posts.
Posted: 12/7/06 at 5:08pm
Posted: 12/7/06 at 5:11pm
...global warming can manifest itself as heat, cool, precipitation, storms, drought, wind, or any other phenomenon, much like a shapeshifter. -- jim geraghty
pray to st. jude
i'm a sonic reducer
he was the gimmicky sort
fenchurch=mejusthavingfun=magwildwood=mmousefan=bkcollector=bradmajors=somethingtotalkabout: the fenchurch mpd collective
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