"When Adams meets the prince, most people in the audience will say, yes go for him! Instead of no, what are you thinking?!"
Uh, no they won't, because at that point it's been established that the Prince, while charming, isn't the catch he appeared to be.
Since when is ANY actor playing the Baker equally as physically attractive as Cinderella's Prince, anyway? Which I assume is your problem? "Oh, ew, Denis O'Hare is SO OLD, he's like, fifty! Practically decrepit!"
I didn't even know O'hare's age until this thread. He never registers as "old" to me. Never thought he was a young man by any stretch of the imagination, obviously. But just an adult man.
I doubt people will have trouble buying O'Hare and Adams as a couple.
In a fairy tale musical.
In a space that seats almost 2000.
"...everyone finally shut up, and the audience could enjoy the beginning of the Anatevka Pogram in peace."