Posted: 8/11/19 at 3:20am
Stop me if you've heard this one. I went to the last performance of Lauren Ambrose in My Fair Lady. It was really on a whim. I was checking to see if the her last show was sold out, and I saw a prime vacant seat. Looked like a House seat that had been released for public sale. So I grabbed it.
I found myself seated beside a pleasant woman who appeared to be in her 60s. We exchanged a few words, but the surprise occurred during the curtain call and ovation. I leaned over to the woman and confessed that I had seen Lauren in the show three times. She saw my three and raised it to eight. Before my brain could process that she said quietly and with pride that she was Lauren's mother.
Nice. She chatted with me for a minute before heading for the door. I was actually trying to get information out of her on why Lauren had really left the show sooner than expected. She repeated what had been said, that she really wanted to do this television piece for Apple. On the way out she was joined by other family members and I turned back and bid her farewell, disappointed that I had not been invited to dine with the family.
But the real surprise was on the next day when I read an "exit" interview with Lauren the next day in the New York Times. It was there that I found out that I learned that her father had been dying during her run and had actually died about a month before Lauren's last. performance.
What conflicting emotions must have been running through Lauren's mother at the end of the last performance. Pride and Grief. I also recognized the strain that must have been put on Lauren in the days preceding and following her father's death. She must have given some rough performances, when she went on despite feeling awful.