I did not see a lot of closing night performances over the years (college in Boston, worked in Manhattan and lived in NJ...didnt really relish going back to NYC after commuting 5 days. But I saw a ew that were memorable...both the shows and the performances.
I was at the last performance of Gypsy with Angela Lansbury at the Winter Garden. The audience was not over-the-top at any point in the show. However,when Lansbury finished Rose's Turn, the audience stood as one, the first time (and for another 35 years or so) I had ever seen a SO during the show (and in those days, you hardly ever saw one after the show...I long for the days). It was incredible. They would not stop applauding, and then you heard the stomping sound that used to happen once in a while (vs. today's stupid yells). She just stayed in character the entire time, which i thought was incredibly impressive.
I also saw Jennifer Holliday's last performance in Dreamgirls (not the show's last performance, just hers). Applause were just like at any performance (the audience could not go much crazier than they did during 'And I am Telling You' at every show, especially the way it is staged at the endow the number). At the end of the performance, each cast member handed her a single rose, while the audience applauded hysterically. Ironically, while her performance was excellent, it did not reach the greatness of the other 3 performances I had seen...her voice was very rough that night.
I was also at that final performance of Follies, having previously only seen it 5 times, as compared to Jay in Chelsea's number of viewings. It was an incredibly exciting performances he indicated, but it was also a sad one, because everyone in the theatre knew it was a huge financial failure, and that we were never likely to see a revival that lived up to that original production...and we haven't seen one that came even close.
I also saw the last performance of Prettybelle in Boston. Jule Styne, Gower Champion, Angela Lansbury (in a great performance). Just did not work. Another big show that should have been in a small theatre, although it really didn't matter. Yet, the number 'When I'm Drunk' still remains one of the best numbers Lansbury has performed ever.
I also plan to attend the closing performances of Phantom of the Opera and The Lion King, and in good health. I figure that, given my current age of 68, I can count on living till I am at least as old as Methuselah.