#151
Posted: 6/3/20 at 9:02am
This statement is truly truly horrendous.
1. "the responses I received to what I posted have made me also focus specifically on how my own behavior towards fellow cast members was perceived by them." -- by using the word perceived here she's rhetorically avoiding owning her actions by placing the hurt on the receiver not the action
2. "While I don’t remember ever making this specific statement and I have never judged others by their background or color of their skin, that’s not really the point," -- First of all there's no need to deny the original statement, that's just trying to excuse herself from this specific harm. Secondly, if that's not the point then why bring it up?
3. "Whether it was my privileged position and perspective that caused me to be perceived as insensitive or inappropriate at times or whether it was just my immaturity and me just being unnecessarily difficult, I apologize for my behavior and for any pain which I have caused." -- Here she's trying to blame things other than herself for her actions (privilege, perspective, youth etc) and again uses the word "perceived" to minimize the actions themselves
4. "I listened to these criticisms and I am learning and while I am very sorry, I will be better in the future from this experience." -- the use of "while" here is a way for her to not own her sorrow in a meaningful way. It's just something for her to get through on her way to the better future. Cutting that one word would make the apology much more meaningful
1. "the responses I received to what I posted have made me also focus specifically on how my own behavior towards fellow cast members was perceived by them." -- by using the word perceived here she's rhetorically avoiding owning her actions by placing the hurt on the receiver not the action
2. "While I don’t remember ever making this specific statement and I have never judged others by their background or color of their skin, that’s not really the point," -- First of all there's no need to deny the original statement, that's just trying to excuse herself from this specific harm. Secondly, if that's not the point then why bring it up?
3. "Whether it was my privileged position and perspective that caused me to be perceived as insensitive or inappropriate at times or whether it was just my immaturity and me just being unnecessarily difficult, I apologize for my behavior and for any pain which I have caused." -- Here she's trying to blame things other than herself for her actions (privilege, perspective, youth etc) and again uses the word "perceived" to minimize the actions themselves
4. "I listened to these criticisms and I am learning and while I am very sorry, I will be better in the future from this experience." -- the use of "while" here is a way for her to not own her sorrow in a meaningful way. It's just something for her to get through on her way to the better future. Cutting that one word would make the apology much more meaningful