Leave Celebrities Alone at Shows — Page 2

I would think it's different for celebrities attending a show and celebrities just seen around town, running errands. If they are attending a show, they know they are putting themselves in an environment like that, and as long as it does not disrupt the show or their observance of it, why not?

But if they are just around town, trying to get somewhere or pick up some things, that seems more intrusive.

Then again, there are some people who really should never be approached, like the aforementioned Vince McMahon

And she doesn't have much talent, either.

What would happen if some elderly theater actress (Lansbury, Marian Seldes, Liz Ashley, etc.) came up to Lea Michele and said "Dear, I'm such a fan of yours?" Not saying they would, but what if?

Would she dart away and say, "Go away you creepy old bat?"

Probs.

No, it wouldn't be inward. Maybe she'd do the hot tea thing like when she was in RAGTIME.

If I see an actor who I've previously met several times at a show, I might say 'hi' in the lobby during intermission or something. That's what happened when I saw Stark Sands at Bonnie & Clyde during its Broadway run. He gave me a hug and we talked a bit about the changes of the show since La Jolla.

I generally believe in leaving celebrities alone.

BUT...

The first husband and I were on the subway one day when Ms. Marian Seldes got on (she was going one stop, from 57th and 7th to 49th street to make the matinee of Deuce). First husband jumped up and said, 'Please take my seat, Ms. Seldes.' She declined, laughing, seemingly astonished that anyone would recognize her (bitch, please!).

I got out of her way so she could leave the subway car and, as she passed, I said, 'Have a wonderful matinee, Ms. Seldes!' She again laughed and touched my cheek at the wonderment of it all. Again, bitch please!

LOVE. HER.

My roommate and I went to see NEXT FALL not too long before it closed, I went to go put my bag on the ground and my roommate tapped me on the shoulder and handed me her Blackberry with the words "Sarah Jessica Parker is sitting in front of us.." on the screen. Sure enough, I looked in front of me and there she was - in all her Carrie Bradshaw glory. At most, we exchanged a glance and maybe a smile, but one woman kept trying to pester her at the end of the performance, asking her to sign something (which if I recall she did) and continued to pester her about the perfume she was wearing - which was all I could smell during the performance. At the time, Sarah Jessica was rather emotional from the performance and kindly told the woman that she needed a minute or two, then proceeded to move to another row and sit for a moment to gather herself. I just remember thinking how classy that was, and how she gave the women sort of what she wanted, but kept the control in the situation.

On the flip side, Lea Michele, the darling bitch that she is - was standing in front of my entry to be seated at American Idiot. She was chatting with a former Spring Awakening alumni, and I had to get around no matter what, and make the mistake of asking Ms. Michele to be the one to move. I barely got the words "Excuse me.." out before she turned and gave me one of the nastiest looks that basically screamed "If you mention anything Glee related or ask for a picture or autograph, I will kill you and make it look like an accident." When I got to finish my thought - "could you move" - she suddenly was the most apologetic person you've ever met and moved quickly out of my way. See, Miss Michele - it's not always about you, bitch.

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Updated On: 8/23/12 at 04:07 PM

"Maybe she'd do the hot tea thing like when she was in RAGTIME."

Can I get some elaboration on that reference?

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RC, I had a couple of encounters with Faye. Granted, they were at public functions, but she couldn't have been nicer. Chi Chi, the same with Debra Winger. But that was a couple of years ago. Now, with Alicia Silverstone joining The Performers, I'm curious how she will be at the stage door. My one and only encounter with her and she was a terror. But this was way before her last NY play. Around the time of Batman and Robin.

Well according to Alicia's book, when she did Batman she was still eating animals, was overweight and full of hate. Now that she's a mom, a vegan and a best selling author, she's much kinder. She takes pics and signs for anyone.

I once was behind Cynthia Nixon buying Tampax at Duane Reade. I didn't ask her for a photo.

I've been to two shows where Kate Winslet slid into her aisle seat as the lights went down and would hop up before lights up at intermission. She would not return until lights were down and fled before curtain call. She knows what she is doing.

I saw Cindy Williams drunk as a skunk at a Chinese restaurant in the village. She was, well drunk, so I yelled that I loved her and she yelled she loved me too. Someone asked for a photo and she gave them the stink eye and said "Im just here with my friend."

I once saw Marilu Henner on the street and I asked her for a photo. She told me only if I gave her money for charity. I thought she entered Loretta Swit-ville, but I later found she was filming The Apprentice. I told her I dont pay for photos.

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I've spoken to many stars civilly and "like normal people." They enjoy that. It's only when they see the glint in your eye of fame recognition that they freak out. Gaveston is right on the money-if you admire them to the extent that what you will say will come across as authentic and not creepy or if you actually have something to say to them that is relevant and not related to them being a star it works best.

Asking for photos from a star when they are on their own time is a celebrity boner shrinker.

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My brother and niece were in town from Texas and I took them to PETER AND THE STARCATCHER the friday before the TONYS. The next day they were at a department store and Celia Keenan Bolger walks out. They told her how much they loved the show and her and she was very sweet to them. Asked where they were from , what was their favorite part of the show and mentioned she had just picked up her dress for the TONYS. She also took pictures with them. Her kind behavior made the trip so special for them. I was so grateful to hear this that now I will gladly go see ANYTHING she does . You don't have to be nice but it does make a difference.

Well theatre actors are lucky anyone recognizes them. Theres a huge difference between being Celia and being Julia Roberts.

Hunter and Lindsay are lucky anyone notices them.

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