No one is questioning that Jay is a talented performer. I saw him in several productions when he was at NYU (most notably, the title role of FLOYD COLLINS, which he played sensationally), and I think he'll be a star for sure someday. I guess in some circles, he already is. But, again, his job right now is to be on tap to jump into the show at a moment's notice and not to expect anything more.
As for him turning down the tours of HAIR and CATCH ME: I have no idea if that's true or not, but if it is, I'd have to wonder why he'd make such decisions. Aside from the recognition of playing a leading role, I'm sure the raise in salary could really help out a 23-year-old working actor.
"You travel alone because other people are only there to remind you how much that hook hurts that we all bit down on. Wait for that one day we can bite free and get back out there in space where we belong, sail back over water, over skies, into space, the hook finally out of our mouths and we wander back out there in space spawning to other planets never to return hurrah to earth and we'll look back and can't even see these lives here anymore. Only the taste of blood to remind us we ever existed. The earth is small. We're gone. We're dead. We're safe."
-John Guare, Landscape of the Body