Posted: 4/3/25 at 10:18am
Penna2 said:
There is this element of his feeling betrayed by the women he loved...even if only imagined. Outside of the times he was on stage or working with his music, he was insecure. I'm not sure of the exact words, but he would say in the dressing room he was this short, ugly guy from the Bronx but when he walked out of the door he was Cary Grant - that's what he loved the most.
Very interesting post about Darin. I don't really know anything about him.
The last part really struck me, because I'm sure many of us have met guys like this - either people you have worked with or been in relationships with - guys who are just so insecure, and then they get so worked up about any perceived sleight. They're their own worst enemies damaging every relationship and themselves. One kid I had working with me about 15 years ago broke his hand trying to punch through somebody's windshield over really nothing.
Another guy I went on a couple dates with, I chuckled at the wrong moment - & the drama. I'm like, you're more handsomel than Tom Cruise, You just dropped your shorts to reveal you've got a baseball bat between your legs - no I am not laughing at you, I'm happy, I am very very happy. I am giggle with glee like Beef Tobin. If you don't like hearing that, well it looks like you've got the tool to shut me up.
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