GeorgeandDot said: "I can tell all of you are men based upon the fact that you think a woman returning to her abuser is romantic, happy, and satisfying."
I'm a man? News to me! 
Look, at the end of the day, everyone's going to have different responses to this piece based on their own emotions and experiences. I've watched the movie and seen the play and read the play (and read Pygmalion too, incidentally) so many times that, from the time I was a teenager, I've been able to recite entire scenes by heart. I say that just to establish that, like most of you (who I expect could make similar claims), I know this piece extremely well. And I don't see Higgins as an abuser and Eliza as his victim.
Now, before the accusation comes up, I don't believe abuse is nonexistent or unimportant AT ALL. I've spoken up for abuse victims in real life. And I could name lots of examples of abusers and victims in art, of various kinds -- I just watched Vertigo again last night and I was rooting for Judy to pack her bags and run from Scottie, to give just one example. (And before THAT accusation comes up, no, I'm not saying that all abuse cases look like Judy and Scottie.) But to me, Eliza and Higgins are a different case. Consider for instance this exchange: "The question is not whether I treat you rudely, but whether you've ever heard me treat anyone else better." "I don't care how you treat me . . . but I won't be passed over!" Eliza knows her own situation very well, knows what her main concern and complaint are, and she is not complaining of abuse.
TL;DR: I take abuse very seriously, in life and in art, but I think we have something different here. That's my considered opinion. I'm entitled to it. You're entitled to yours. One's response to art is ultimately a very personal and subjective thing. But the fact that I see Eliza and Higgins differently from you doesn't make me a justifier of abuse.
Updated On: 3/19/18 at 09:31 AM