I'm mixed on a lot of Patti's behavior. On the one hand, I can't help but love a good bit of juicy Broadway gossip and the idea of a Broadway diva, but I also think some of her behavior is kind of rude and unprofessional. Like, why did she need to say that about that performance? Whether she likes it or not, those are her peers, especially Audra and Christine. Clearly it was performed out of good fun and we all know Patti is performing it "for real" on stage. Also like, it's a song with depth for sure, but it's also a hell of comedic number. It's not like they laughed their way through Send in the Clowns or something...
As for the trashing the dressing room, I get that was a horrible experience, but I also don't know if that is behavior she should necessarily be proud of. I'm not that broken up that she did it, but the way she just casually mentioned how she didn't perform that night as if she didn't have an entire cast relying on her and her performance kind of rubbed me the wrong way. I get it, it was a bad experience, maybe her cast mates understood and we don't know all the details, but it struck me as kind of in poor taste. She also has been trashing the idea of these fundraisers and concerts for COVID-19, yet she performed in Rosie's and did the Sondheim concert which benefited a cause as well.
Don't get me wrong, I love Patti, she is one of the best of the best, and I do appreciate refreshing honesty (her comments about Madonna were absolutely on point, and I am sorry how Mendes treated her), but I really was put off by her Ladies who Lunch comments. This is a woman who goes on and on about being a trained ensemble actress, yet she threw three exemplary actresses under the bus for performing a song in good fun, as if she owns it (and honestly, nobody "owns" a song, but if anyone does own Ladies Who Lunch, it's Elaine.)