After trying for months to win the Phantom lottery, I finally won for the Tuesday show. Phantom was my first Broadway show and is one of my favorites, hadn't gotten to see it since 2018.
I can't afford the normal price tix so winning was a true blessing as it seemed that I would get my chance to see it one last time before it closed. I got second row, way on the right row BB, seat 14. But the seats were wonderful.
I was desperate to get Ted Keegan to be my last Phantom, seeing an old school legendary Phantom would be so perfect and special for my final show. Sadly no such luck but that was no big deal then.
I was excited for what was supposed to be a special and meaningful evening, and that is not what I got, thanks to the two women next to me, specifically the one two seats down.
She spent almost the entire show on her phone, and she talked to her friend the entire time. Any time a scene was loud enough she would start talking again. I had a hard time focusing and it was ruining the show for me. I spoke to an usher during the intermission, but all she did was mention the phone and not her constant talking. And she continued on her phone anyway.
I hate confrontation so I hadn't said anything the whole show as I didn't want to have to feel the awkwardness or anxiousness that would cause. But I finally hit my breaking point as I was so upset, almost without control I leant over and very frantically/desperately/somewhat aggressively asked her to "PLEASE. STOP TALKING. I'M SORRY. PLEASE". She looked at me like shocked/stunned, didn't say anything, as if it was a shock to her that she had been doing anything wrong.
I wish I had hit that boiling point earlier, because there was only 20 minutes left in the show and I'd already lost huge chunks of the show due to how upset I was feeling. She shut up mostly for the rest of the show. But the damage had been done and the evening was essentially ruined for me as 75% of my memory of the performance is of frustration of this woman talking.
I don't want that to end up being my last experience seeing this show on Broadway. It's too important to me. But how can I rely on the lottery happening again--and now knowing the dates Ted Keegan has left I need to get to one of those shows...April 3 is really my only option. But my only sure fire options are full priced tickets which again are just way outside being a financially sound decision. I even spoke to the box office during intermission but they didn't have anything better. I could try day of if they get more discounted the closer it gets to the performance but also that's no guarantee, and I really don't want to do SRO for my last time too.
Ugh. I don't know what to do. I'm so upset. If anybody has any advice or ideas, or is by some microscopic chance selling a ticket to that performance haha, I'd appreciate it.
Updated On: 2/9/23 at 10:32 AM