I came to NYC back in the day to see the original company of "Aint' Misbehavin'." Two of the three women were out, and one of the men. It was basically another configuration. And it was the final 3 performances of the originals. I was devastated, and didn't forgive (2 out for the matinee went on that night, when I was at "On the 20th Century," and Kahn ahd moved on...). Years later, the show was revived with everyone and Nell Carter issued an informal public apology to all of the people she let down in the 70s. She was great decades later, and may she rest in peace, but it was lovely that she recognized her excessive number of absences in the first iteration. Charlene Woodard, heroic, was the woman not out that day. She later wrote an extraordinary solo show about working with the piece, and brilliantly illuminated the tortured behavior of Carter. It was done at Manhattan Theater Club, and when I saw it I felt an odd sense of closure as an audience member.
"I'm a comedian, but in my spare time, things bother me." Garry Shandling