dramamama611 said: "Turn himself in? He's not wanted. Rock isn't pressing charges. There is NOTHING for the police TO do. I am in no way excusing his behavior, but so many of you (and the press) are the ones making it be an overshadowing event by continually discussing it. Heck, CNN wrote when Jada made her first instagram post the next day - which doesn't seem like it had anything to do with the incident. This whole idea of the public thinking they have say as to how much punishment is "enough" or "just" is plain silly. It's the same way that I roll my eyes at those that crap on DEH because he wasn't punished. That's life....and, yes, in many circumstances people who do wrong do not face punishment. Do some of them learn from it? Yes. All of them? Of course not. Part of being a judge, is to look at the whole picture, not just the behavior in a secluded bubble. Are you allowed to think differently of him? Refuse to pay to see his work? Sure. I have artists I won't financially support. (Well, only one I can think of...)
Do I think Smith is sorry? I don't think that's for me to say. That's up to Chris Rock, the Academy and Will's conscience. It has nothing to do with me. Was more of it over concern he just ended his career? Perhaps - but that's often when we're sorry - when we realize what we've potentially lost. WILL it end his career? I actually don't think so.
I was disappointed to hear that when they tried to get him leave at the end, he refused - as well as hearing he partied afterwards."
I agree. I think the incident will certainly wreck Emancipation*'s chances at next year's Oscars, but if he puts himself up for contention in 2023/24/25 in order to get an "untainted" win, I will keep an open mind and might even support him if the movie is good (That's a big conditional - For every Ali or King Richard, Smith has made a Seven Pounds or Collateral Beauty)..
I feel like the debate on cancellation depends on the level of goodwill we have for the relevant celebs before hand. Based on Fresh Prince, Men in Black, and even most of his songs, I generally have a very high level of affection towards Will Smith, and it will take more than one moment of madness for me to lose that affection long enough for me to consider him "cancelled". These debates can be harder when they involve celebrities you like, but my rule is to err on the side of generosity. When Whoopi Goldberg was suspended from The View for her insensitive comments about Jews, I waited out the two weeks with no trouble and followed the Color Purple casting news. I still hold Liam Neeson in high regard, despite his infamous comments about having wanted to carry out a hate crime - His downfall has been driven by reliance on mediocre action films of late, and I still think he has a few more worthwhile films in him. "Cancel culture" can be riven with hypocrisy, and I feel it's very difficult to boycott even the worst wrongdoers entirely.
I believe in trying to see the good in people as much as I possibly can, and believe that is the best way of making the world a better place. If we want a less angry world, we should stop spending our time getting so angry over one person's act of stupidity, and start turning our attention to fixing the millions of greater problems caused by our general culture of anger and resentment. The people who are ignoring the situation, playing it for comedy, or trying to start positive conversations on issues like Alopecia or conflict resolution are the ones we should follow and listen to.
(* - Emancipation is Smith's forthcoming slavery drama/thriller, due to be released on Apple + and a prime bit of Oscar Bait - or it would be if he hadn't lost his temper like that...)